Aarti
Organic food is a fantastic concept. To a large extent, I am aware that it is perfect. But we couldn’t afford to put too many organic foods on the grocery list or in the cart because we had five children! Fortunately, my kids got a lot of organics in one area: their minds. You see, there weren’t any earbuds, smartphones, or iPads when my kids were little. They and I were the only ones when we went shopping or for a stroll. The show was on me!
They engaged in organic thinking, which involved coming up with ideas on their own without the use of gadgets. Another option would be to present ideas and concepts in the hopes of generating organic ideas.
“Hey, Megan, did you notice that gorgeous tree with the pink flowers?” I would ask as we drove to kindergarten. Also, check out that adorable little black and white puppy. How about a dog as well?
1. Let Them Speak Their Mind
Give your kids the chance to talk to you. Keep in mind the little characters from “The Sound of Music” film. In the first scene of the film, the kids are essentially expected to follow directions without question.
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The golden rule should be to listen politely while your children share their thoughts and desires with you, even though this is essential in some aspects of parenting. If you’re looking for conversation starters, try our TALK Conversation Starters.
2. Expose Them to New Things and Ideas
Live each day as an adventure. Take them to live concerts, art exhibits, and book signings so you can share what you’ve been reading.
3. Ask Questions
Ask them questions such, “So why do you think that boy acted that way?” while reading aloud or reading with them. (Check out one of the titles we recommend!) Get their take on things as they come up in the news. Take a look at our Q & U app for additional questions.
4. Let Them Figure It Out
Do not intervene or give them instructions every time they make a mistake. They need to learn that putting on pants makes it easier to put on shoes. Give them the benefit of the doubt. (If you’re having trouble taking a step back, check out our 10 methods for teaching your kids to solve problems.)
5. Go Tech-Free
They may be having an easier time of it than you are. They may be the ones begging you to give them your iPad or phone, but you still have to pay attention to them! I can assure you that removing technological devices from your children’s lives will help them think more naturally. While you’re away, they can gaze out the window of the automobile. Discuss the many hues used on food packaging while shopping. Instead of putting Baby Einstein on, get out some LEGOs or blocks. Playing “brain building” games on a mobile device is no substitute for engaging in real-world activities.
