Aarti
Coming home at the end of the day is one of my favorite moments of the day. The front door is locked when I arrive. My young daughter is on the other side, playing with the doorknob, and I can’t get my key to open it. Even though she recognizes me, she doesn’t say a word until the door opens and we lock eyes. Suddenly, she begins to jig as if she were a student section member at a college basketball game. Last but not least, she cries out, “Daddy!” as she keeps jumping. I am deeply touched and cherished by her unfussy demonstration of joy.
Nothing like a daughter’s love for lifting your spirits on the lowest of days. It is also true in the other direction. A child’s sense of safety and self-assurance is profoundly bolstered by their father’s love. But it must be stated and shown clearly. A mother can express her affection for her daughter with these easy actions.
1. Physical Affection
Send her hugs and kisses. It’s likely that she will anticipate them whenever you welcome her or bid her farewell. In particular, the unplanned ones will do wonders for her self-esteem. Hold her hand every now and then as you sit or stroll side by side.
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She is special to you, and these gentle touches show it.
2. Compliments
Both in private and in front of her are acceptable ways to do this. Despite her outward expressions of embarrassment, she will be beaming inside. Don’t try to boost her mood by using empty praises. Find the qualities in her that are deserving of praise and think about them. Pay equal attention to praising her intangible attributes and praising her physical ones.
3. Knowing Her Favorite Things
Get to know her favorite things: food, drink, music, actors, restaurants, literature, and classes. Look at these matters. Join her in watching her favorite movie or reading her favorite book. Make sure to include her favorite snacks or lunch items when you give them to her. She will feel deeply appreciated if you show her that you notice her “small” details.
4. Spontaneous One-on-One Time Together
Treat her to a meal, a stroll, or coffee. Bring her favorite meals on a picnic and take her somewhere special. Making time to spend with someone is the surest way to make them feel appreciated. Make the most of your time alone with her. (You may also assist Mom in spending quality time with your daughter by sharing this bucket list for mothers and daughters.)
5. Written Notes
The sad truth is that this is fading away. No need to be a Shakespearean genius. What is required is little more than a few words scribbled down on paper. Saying “I love you” is all it takes. You can personalize the card by writing “Who loves you?” on one side and “Your daddy does!” on the other. Put these messages in spots where she’ll be surprised to see them. If looking in the mirror gives her the willies, she should definitely avoid that area.
