Aarti
When Harry Met Sally is a film that I really enjoy. A lot of well-known lines and humorous moments are there. One scenario has Billy Crystal’s Harry discussing his divorce with his friend Jess while they’re at a football game. In front of a jubilant audience doing the wave, he confides in his pal the shameful tale of his wife’s decision to leave him. According to him, his wife expressed uncertainty about her want to remain married. It had nothing to do with her character; she had just grown skeptical of marriage as a whole. Someone was up when a moving company showed up right away to help her move out. After some time has passed, he learns that she has moved on with another man. “Marriages don’t break up on a count of infidelity,” his friend Jess responds. That’s all it is—a sign that something else is amiss.
Disconnection
There are always hidden motivations for dishonesty. Although there is never a good cause to cheat, there are situations in which it does occur. A significant distinction exists between the two. Our marriages have a higher chance of avoiding this tragic fate if we are aware of the reasons. While we’ll get into guys next week, today we’ll address the question of why women cheat.
Boredom
Things have become quite cozy. She becomes disillusioned with her life and marriage as a result of the constant boredom. Creating romance and experiencing new things might be challenging when everyone is exhausted. The thrill of being sought and having one’s attractiveness felt is something many women crave. Some people actively seek it out, while others, when they’re feeling vulnerable, turn their heads.
Get a Head Start: Try Something New and Experiment Right Away. Express your undying love for her and never give up on her.
Revenge
Doing this is easy. The wife decides to cheat on her husband as a means of winning him back. Having an affair for vengeance almost never makes a woman feel better. Usually, a greater sense of emptiness follows.
Get a head start: If you catch yourself thinking about or doing anything you wouldn’t approve of your wife doing, stop right away.
Unmet Expectations
They miss their husband’s unfulfilled sexual, emotional, and quality time needs. I could go on and on with the list. They go elsewhere to satisfy their needs after experiencing disappointment and, at times, bitterness.
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Take the lead early on by being transparent about what you anticipate. You should do your best to meet expectations, but remember that there needs to be some compromise. You may have to give in to some of her wants if she does. There is no one person that a spouse can ever fully satisfy. That’s the reason grace and forgiveness matter so much.
Abuse
Dissatisfaction in sexual relationships and poor self-esteem are long-lasting effects of abuse. Surprisingly, seeking affirmation from men and engaging in promiscuity are both pursued. This could occur even if the husband lavishes his wife with praise and attention. It won’t mend the hurt at all.
Make a Good First Impression: Validation helps, but it doesn’t cure the underlying problem. See a counselor often; you two need it.
