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With the rise of social media and dating apps, teen dating has seen dramatic transformations in recent years. Dating may be riskier now than it was in the past due to the ease with which people may meet and communicate with total strangers online, but it may also be safer now that the same technology can provide a safety net.
Dating Guidelines for Parents
Establishing some rules and limits for your teen’s dating life can help keep them safe. You can ensure your teen’s safety while giving them dating independence by following these steps. The most useful things to accomplish are listed below.
Enforce a Curfew
It may seem obvious that parents should set and enforce a curfew when their kid begins dating, but you’d be astonished at how many don’t. One of the easiest methods to establish limits is to set a curfew so that your kid knows exactly when a date will stop.
Think about the rules in your area before setting a curfew. The majority of cities have a set curfew for high school students, so many parents just follow those rules.
Establish Ground Rules
When your kid first begins dating, it’s necessary to set some boundaries. Take some time to consider and articulate your expectations for your child. For instance, many families enforce a rule that prohibits their adolescent from spending the night at their partner’s house unless both sets of parents are present.
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If your teen’s plans change and they need to be somewhere else, you may want to know about it. If your adolescent had planned to attend a party but has changed their mind and would rather go to the movies, they should send you a text message to let you know.
Meet Your Child’s Date
Teens often resist introducing their dates to their parents. However, this is an essential measure for safe dating. Your teen’s date can give you insight into who your teen is spending their time with, and you can begin to develop a relationship with them as well by meeting them.
Be Your Child’s Standing Excuse
Teens can easily get in over their heads, whether it’s a bad date or a sticky situation at school. Maybe their date takes them to a house party where they can get wasted and high.
Or perhaps your teen’s date is becoming violent, intoxicated, or sexually aggressive. You can be the one they always say they had to leave because of or the one who comes to pick them up if this is the case.
Dating Safety for Teens
Teens also have a role to play in maintaining dating safety. You owe it to them to provide them advice on how to protect themselves on dates and set up secure situations for themselves. All teenagers should think about the following suggestions.
Keep Your Parents in the Loop
In order to make good decisions and act responsibly on a date, you need to be an adult. It’s also not a right but a privilege. If your teen values the opportunity to date and doesn’t want to lose it, they should talk to you about it.
Consider Group Dates
Even while it’s natural for couples in a committed relationship to crave alone time, doing so has significant risks. Instead of going on one-on-one dates when they’re young, teens can try going on group dates.
Meet in a Public Place
Dates in public places, such as restaurants or bars, are safer than those in private places like homes or parks. Dates in neutral settings like bars, cafes, bowling alleys, and athletic events can keep the stress of dating to a minimal.
Talk About Consent
Reminding your kid what consent is and the significance of making sure both people in a dating relationship are on the same page is an awkward conversation to have, but it’s one you need to have.
If your adolescent seems to be getting serious about their significant other, then you should have this talk with them. Sexual assault, sexual abuse, and rape are all preventable if people have open conversations about consent. Don’t miss out on this discussion.
Refrain From Sexting
Sexting comes with serious dangers and repercussions. Teens face risks not only from the law, but also from the potential regret of sending or receiving embarrassing images.
All too often, intimate images taken during a relationship are used as a weapon when it ends. Make sure your teen understands that sexting is always wrong. This puts them in jeopardy in a variety of ways.
